I am so sorry you are having a hard time of it. Tough stuff this. And you are right, no one knows what the future holds. It isnt over til you say it's over.

So, just a couple of things moving forward.


Originally Posted By: Grizz
She asked me before she left if I thought she should do a six month lease or a year.


I think I would have just said that is your decision to make.

Originally Posted By: Grizz
I said that I didn't want her to leave at all but if that was going to make her happy then that is what needed to be done. I then said, well maybe 6 months of separation may be just what we need.


She knows you dont want this, G. By saying 6 months separation may be just what we need, she feels you arent hearing her.

Originally Posted By: Grizz
W: it will all be over alot sooner than six months
Me: what
W: the D
Me: ok
W: do you think we are just going to get remarried after 6 months?
Me: I don't know what the future holds. .


So that's why you got that ^^^^.

G, I know you are heartbroken.

I also know you are so sad for your children. It will be tough at first. But, if they see you are ok, then they will feel safe.

They are watching you. Show them how to handle life with strength and courage.

They will be ok, Grizz. They will. They have an amazing father.