Good that you can see that there were a few things that you could have done better.. It's a learning process.
Yes, in your wife's eyes, the M is over. That is how she feels today. It doesn't mean that is how she will always feel. But I find your choice of words interesting.. How you weren't in the mood to humour her... You telling her no crying in public.. It does sound as though you were treating her like a child rather than your spouse. And I'm not sure what you mean by "kill switch". Does this mean you would just ignore her?
It's good that you're starting to recognize some of your misgivings.. Be prepared to dig deeper.
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Me:38.. H:33. Two beautiful kids S:6 D:3 M:8.. together for 11. Bomb dropped:10/17/11 Separated:11/07/11
