Thanks fartlitre, I just might look you up if I'm ever in town.
My birthday boy is lying here beside me as I write this. I guess even big kids can't pass up a chance to sleep in the big bed when the opportunity presents itself.
Incidentally, I off-handedly asked W why she thought I was on drugs and she confirmed my suspicions by saying that I seemed really calm at the mediator and that I've been more laid back (but still really active at the same time.
Gotta love that detachment. Works like a charm.
M41 W42 M 12 T 15 S10, D9, twin Ds 3 1/2 BD 1/2/2013 Living as roommates Working on D agreement w. mediator 5/13