Dear Bets, I am thinking of you today. WOW, when you open up to a guy, you really open up! I am so proud of you for being able to say what you felt. And in a way I am proud of H for sending you flowers. BUT I still want to hit that jerk with a major 2 x 6....I agree with above, his taking a year+ off while you hold down the fort is so irresponsible. It makes me sick.
Maybe you should tell him that you are pretty sure that June, 04 it becomres YOUR turn for a midlifecrises and you are planning on spending it in St.Barts.
Oh, yes, when left alone, I do tend to amuse myself in the strangest ways....honey, you've done so much more than the rest of us in trying to deal with an awful sitch. I respect you so much and hope that you will be rewarded with a wonderful marriage down the road. And if Mr. W. doesn't get his act together soon, there WILL be stalking and it WONT be the nice kind.
