Because you dont want her coming back out of guilt or pressure. That just brings more trouble down the road.
Exactly! That's where I messed up my own sitch and it's no fun -- protracted limbo. The biggest mistake I made was not giving her more space than she wanted. Don't repeat my mistake!
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Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11 Start Reconcile: 8/15/11 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced) In a New Relationship: 3/2015