Hey Chris, sorry if I was a little harsh. Just hate to see you keep shooting yourself in the foot, ya know? I can see you are a very intelligent guy but emotions get the best of us.
I agree completely with Acc.
The therapist thing is a tough call. It is imperative to get the right one.
I am not sure what can be gained from it at this point.
I dont think your w is going to tell you anything you didnt already know about how she feels.
She's already said it before, you heard it, right?
Hopefully you took from that what you agreed was true and are working towards changing those things about yourself.
Really, Chris, I think the very best thing for you to do right now is lovingly let her go.
She really needs to figure this out on her own. Because you dont want her coming back out of guilt or pressure. That just brings more trouble down the road.
If you decide to have this ralk tonight, be mindful to just listen. Stay calm, positive, confident.
And if you dont, that is ok, too.
Become the man you want to be, C. So that if she looks towards you in the future and you are open to it, she will see a man who has grown with strength and courage.
