I have been reading through your threads for the last days and they break my heart. I do not have a lot of advice to give you and you do seem to get excellent advices.
Your story is tough. I have read stories in here that are worse but your story is so much like mine and that is what made it especially tough to read.
The reason I am writing you now is that I would very much like some advice from you, if you will help me!
If you have the time and you feel up to it then please read my thread. I know in your current situation that this is a lot to ask and I will totally understand if you choose not to.
As I read your thread you have done well! You have restrained yourself and your DBing is excellent but I also read doubt somewhere. Doubt about what to do, if you should have opened more, doubt about the impact of your GAL and so on. Doubt, confusion, hope and despair!
I am exactly at that point! I am not sure I am getting anywhere. DB and MWD tell us to look for the little signs but I am confused and I do not know what to look for anymore! With your experience and the age of your sit perhaps you can guide me.
I somehow feel bad to ask you this, but if I don’t I will never have a chance to get your answer. I will fully understand and accept if you decline this request!
I wish you all the best!
Me:44 W:43 D7, D5 (S11 from other R)
T: 8y - not M ILYB: 8. Mar 2013 W moved: 1. Aug 2013 LRT: 20. Aug 2013 _______________________________ Do or do not – there’s no try.
