Posting transcripts is definitely helpful. That all seems fine, but you see it's the stereotypical male/female interchange. She's trying to "share the drama" with you and let you know how she feels, and you're offering solutions and trying to make it better versus getting into the moment with her.

Stereotypically women just want you to empathize with how they are feeling about things versus telling them what to do to fix it. They are smart and usually know what to do -- they're not coming to you looking for the answer, they're coming looking to share in the journey.

One thing to try training yourself is not to suggest solutions unless she asks you for one directly. Otherwise focus on how she's feeling about whatever it is, versus the situation itself.

Accuray

Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced
M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11
Start Reconcile: 8/15/11
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced)
In a New Relationship: 3/2015