Tough situation Floyd. Listen, while you got a couple of 2x4's for attitude, I don't necessarily agree with the flogging. The fact that you posted and vented it here was the opportunity for others to chime in and help keep you on the path that requires strength and dignity.
I think all reactions people have are just that, a reaction instead of action, right? Your action is now to set an amazing example for the kids.
Everything will come out. It has too. Sorry it will cost money that could be better spent, but keep on your higher road. Be the man you want your daughters to hold up as a benchmark.