She is out to clear her name from the A and using a male prostitute. This is ugly.
According to my W, I've been charging up all our credit cards, including a 10K plasma TV (I wish I knew where that was!). This is all a cover story to hide the fact that she's been spending most of her days screwing around with OM, therefore not making any money, driving us into debt.
As Mach1 told me not long ago, this is all about appearances now. She's going to lie and lie to try to justify her behavior and make herself look better. But the more she lies, the more difficult they become to keep track of....and the truth is always the truth.
You do have dignity and grace Ruby. We love you. You are one of my heroes. XW has run up crazy debt. She is refusing to disclose financials. The judge will need to tell her I guess. Lots of money missing. She is a banker so she handled the finances. Big mistake. She used me for the BMW last year. Made all kinds of promises then a month later says we are done. She is not grasping that it gets clawed back. Costing me money to do that though.
M17 yrs. me49 xW47 d15 d11
BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out) Therapy 9 months (tried 2) BD2- May/12(sep) Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50 Sold home - Aug/13 Court #2 - Dec/13 Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again We settled.
Tough situation Floyd. Listen, while you got a couple of 2x4's for attitude, I don't necessarily agree with the flogging. The fact that you posted and vented it here was the opportunity for others to chime in and help keep you on the path that requires strength and dignity.
I think all reactions people have are just that, a reaction instead of action, right? Your action is now to set an amazing example for the kids.
Everything will come out. It has too. Sorry it will cost money that could be better spent, but keep on your higher road. Be the man you want your daughters to hold up as a benchmark.
Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. I deserve the 2x4 s at times. It is hard as we all know to focus. My babies love me and I love them. Do what is right. Let her keep dropping the ball, as hard as that is to watch.
M17 yrs. me49 xW47 d15 d11
BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out) Therapy 9 months (tried 2) BD2- May/12(sep) Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50 Sold home - Aug/13 Court #2 - Dec/13 Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again We settled.
Wow, Inside out, that was some Zen, Confucius-like wisdom you laid down there: A reaction instead of an action. That's one to remember.
Floydman, when you talk about how much you love your kids, it gives me the idea that you've got your eyes firmly on the prize. Good for you.
Keep fighting the good fight, keep posting, and keep doing what you have to do to give yourself the best possible chance at a positive outcome -- whatever that might be.
M41 W42 M 12 T 15 S10, D9, twin Ds 3 1/2 BD 1/2/2013 Living as roommates Working on D agreement w. mediator 5/13
BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out) Therapy 9 months (tried 2) BD2- May/12(sep) Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50 Sold home - Aug/13 Court #2 - Dec/13 Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again We settled.
Too funny Ruby. Love ya! Keep me updated on road trip. She actually tried to run my schedule for the next week. I had no part of it.
M17 yrs. me49 xW47 d15 d11
BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out) Therapy 9 months (tried 2) BD2- May/12(sep) Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50 Sold home - Aug/13 Court #2 - Dec/13 Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again We settled.
xW actually forgot to pick up d10 last night at 8:30pm from her sport and kept her waiting for an hour. She told d10 and some friends that kept her company in the meantime it was my fault. They called her on the BS. So sad. d10 is furious with her.
M17 yrs. me49 xW47 d15 d11
BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out) Therapy 9 months (tried 2) BD2- May/12(sep) Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50 Sold home - Aug/13 Court #2 - Dec/13 Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again We settled.
The fact that you posted and vented it here was the opportunity for others to chime in and help keep you on the path that requires strength and dignity.