I know, I really am a very intelligent person and can logically understand all the mistakes I'm making here. The issue i fight is my heart and emotions take over.
Should I even be talking to her at this point? Should I even be going to counseling with her? Or shoudl tell her no, and see if she has time to figure herself out some more? But, then I run the risk that she may say, I don't want to go with you now.