Moving forward with my life

[cbtdad]

Like I have said. I am trying to have minimal contact as much as possible. One of my problems with that is I want to help though. He is a text exchange W and I just had:
W: I'm about to freak out

Me: about?

W: I'm trying to freaking get stuff packed and I can't. Honestly I'm about to have a panic attack

Me: Slow down and breathe. Maybe go somewhere by yourself for a moment and just smoke a cig or something

W: I have and I'm now on tears.

Me: I'm sorry. You know I hate that. What's holding up the packing?

W: everyone else that's still showing

Me: They can't bring foxy back for you? I mean you seemed to have done a whole lot for them I would think

W: I have to get my trunk. It has to go in my car and I have to drive it into the barn

Me: Ok. So do you have any other choices, but to wait I guess?

Me: Why the big hurry? Just curious.
Yes, I'm looking forward to a break, but I've had him this long. A few more hours isn't going to kill me.
Don't panic because of that

W: I am

Me: I am what?

W: freaking to get home

Me: I understand. He misses you as well. We both knew this couple of weeks was going to be stressful. Just try to hang in there. It's almost done. And it seems like you and foxy did pretty damn well for y'all's first show together. That's something to be happy about:)

W: I'm happy about the show

Me: Good! Anything else I can do to help?
You can vent to me all you want

W: no. Pray I get out of here at a decent time

Me: I can do that



Please let me know if I could have handled that differently. I feel like I let her seem like I'm going to be there for her for whatever.
Interesting side note. She did text me last night about how well she did in the biggest event and told me to ask her mom because she saw.
The interesting part is she never invites her mom and usually doesn't want her there. Especially knowing the OM would be up there.
Couple that with Friday and how she was something seems a little different. I am just trying not to have any expectations about it what so ever.