I echo GTO Tori. It is perfectly natural and normal not to want to see him. Who cares how he took it. Your life is about you now and nurturing and healing your emotions. You were not mean, rude, disrespectful or passive aggressive. You weren't trying to hurt him, anger him, or belittle him. You were honest. And you were kind to yourself.

You are a wonderful, insightful and compassionate woman. Your determination to help others is inspiring and beautiful.

TPS
Me: 44 H: 42
M14 T17
S10 D7
10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month
21/04/12 H is 'DONE'
04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010)
July '14 H ends affair
May '15 H moves back home