Originally Posted By: ChrisN
I know I have been supposed to be leaning out, but she has been talking... I know, I know better. Ugh, I'm an idiot at times.


Oh Chris, you keep saying you know better, but..........
Gotta watch out for those buts, ya know?

Originally Posted By: ChrisN
feels confused at times about her life, what she wants, missing us and our life, etc, but she can not comit to anything. area we both can make a decision on the future"


She keeps telling you...you arent hearing her. She is confused about her life. She cannot committ to anything at this time.

Originally Posted By: ChrisN
Perhaps I expect too much from her? We are in two different places, and I also can't deal with the emotional roller coaster of all this blame from her. However, I know that she deserves to have her say about how she felt and feels. And if there is ANY chance for us in the future, that this is the first step on that road. "


Ya think? And I agree with your brother. This is as much as she can give right now. You have to decide if you can accept that.

And then you need to decide if you are willing to allow her to figure this all out.

Your choice.