M, I am so sorry. I know this hurts.

I agree with what everyone else has posted.

This is her journey to walk. Your job is to get out of the way and let her.

You know the truth of your memories. They were real.

She knows something wrong, cant figure out what and that angers her. Because she is hurting and often when people are, they lash out at those closest to them.

It doesnt matter what you do right now, she would find fault.

So it is best to just give her space to sort things out.

You have to dig in now. Really dig in and lovingly let her go.

You can do this. We are right here to help.