ok. Is that somehow supposed to mean that YOU are supposed to do it, this time? If so, why? I do not know. See still has not called the mediator. I know this because the mediator said she would call me if she did.
Do you want to get D? If so, then set up mediation or file D. If not, then the onus is still on her to work through this. You are just along for the ride, doing what you need to do, within the time that you are supposed to do it, in the event that she moves forward. I do not want a D, my therapist tells me that i was in a abusive relationship, and that I really need to looking into why I would go back. And I tell her that I love my wife. Otherwise, what are you doing, to make yourself a man that only a fool would leave?
I am and have been working on myself, I have learned to notice when I split into the old depressed person and come out of if.