Well played, T. Well played indeed. It sounds like a test sbe was giving you there and you passed. When something like that comes up and you offer to help, they might just say no because they think you don't really mean it or because they think you're trying to earn brownie points. The best thing to do is shrug it off and say suit yourself. Let them worry about some imaginary hidden agenda.

I also know what you mean about "modesty". W used to parade around in the altogether (lol) but now it's all locked bathroom doors and clothes laid out before getting in the shower. In a way it's good though because it keeps my mind off what I'm missing out on wink


M41 W42
M 12 T 15
S10, D9, twin Ds 3 1/2
BD 1/2/2013
Living as roommates
Working on D agreement w. mediator 5/13