Next time she offers to do anything, take it. Even if you didn't need anything think of something you need and take the offer. That was my coach's first advice for me when my H was still living here. There was no anger or hate between us so he would still come to the kitchen when I was preparing dinners and asked if I needed help. Most of the time I didn't so the first few times I'd kindly decline his offers. After speaking to a coach I started taking any offer. The advice totally made sense. Every time he offered, we would end up talking a lot and created a nice atomisphere. After any offer and job, I sincerely thanked him for help and again it created a nice vibe.
M37 H36 M8 T12 inc 3yr L-dist 7/12:H broke down 10/12:H dad D frm W4. BD soon after 1/13:H wants to leave 2/13:H gpa passed. Feels closer but H still leaving 3/13: S begins