No....that absolutely did not cross my mind. Really, the only thing that crossed my mind was my daughters dental health. In retrospect, yes I definitely should have called wife prior to making the apointment. I acknowledge that. my bad. However In all honesty, I could care less what Wife was doing at 10:30am on a Monday morning, but I know she wouldn't have to work. I was not prying for information about her whereabouts. We live literally 5 minutes from the dentist. I was fully willing to take her, if was was not wanting or able to. Perhaps I approached it wrongly, but again Daughters well being was my only real concern.
Here is the exact context of the messages:
ME: I set up an apointment for (Daughter) to see the dentist. They had a Monday opening at 10:30am available. I hope that is okay?
WIFE: Are you taking her?
ME: I can if you're busy, sure! I have all the costs covered, so don't need money. (daughter) mentioned her tooth was sore the other day. I thought we better get her in for a checkup ASAP.
