I just got done reading my first three threads from start to finish as a refresher of what I should be doing. I noticed a few things...my tone was different.
I had the bevinners mind.
I just asked questions directly like you said, and just waited for people to chime in. then I commented and thanked every poster with an open mind.
I think I need to get back focus on learning.
In the first few threads, I learned validation techniques, light touch and what that means, and how it can be done, etc...
lately, im not learning so much from all of the posters here. The way I phrase things is different. My old posts were fun! People enjoyed the interaction with me during the first two months.
I dont want to change into an arguing bitter guy because I really wasnt like that.
So. Back to the old me!
Tomorrow morning im taking my daughter to play at her favorite indoor park. I told wife sge is wekcome to come, and she said she would like that. We will see, last Sunday she didnt come with us and looked jealous when she watched the videos of us having fun
I also want to work some more on back yard makeover. Its been raining a lot so will have to see.
Me, H-34 now 38 W-32 now 35 T-13 now 18 years M-6 now 9 Daughter 3 years now 7 Bomb 11/27/12 - OM 1 year in house separation Reconciliation 12/2013. Healed now 2017