Hello everybody,
Finally spring has arrived here. It was snowing a couple of days ago, but now the temperatures got up, so everybody is in high spirits after such a long winter.
It happens at the right time, because W needs to answer to my last email concerning finances. My question was not that complicated, and if she is taking so long, it's because she must be asking advice to her dad (lawyer) and her dad's colleagues on what to reply. I know, I know, I'm not supposed to try and read her intentions..
My question was : what do you think is the considered property. And I also gave her a couple of reasons why the spousal support should cease and asked how she saw things. Nothing threatening or pushy really. It's been a week already and still no answer..

On my end, I have gathered all the documents from our apartment sale, the bank accounts before marriage and at the date of separation. I haven't disclosed any of it yet, but I want to play it clear and open.
If she has accepted to discuss about money things, it will be less obvious that she will accept to give S 50% of the time, or even discuss it. Any idea how I should introduce the subject?
Something like : btw, since we're talking money, shouldn't we talk also about S time increase towards my 50%?
How do you think is a good way to talk her into giving me S half the time?
My visits overnight went super well, really I mean, what was everybody expecting? S to go back with bruises and famished? Honestly...

Anyways, any suggestions would be appreciated,
Happy spring to all,
Bruce


Me:34 ; W:28
Son: almost 2.
Married : 14 March 2009
DBomb : 18 June 2012
Separated since Jan 2012 (different countries)
Same country and city since July 2012