Thanks all. I am going to start a new thread as this ones getting a little long and I could do with a fresh start. I'll post a link to it when it's done. Although I am typing on my phone so it could take a while!
Me: 38 W: 35 M: 9Yrs T: 15Yrs S8 D5 BD: Feb 13 Still Living Together
I feel like I'm in thick forest, I'm slowly drawing a map of the way out, but not sure yet which side of the forest I will emerge.