Take the hits and keep moving forward.

[T1000]

T1000, haven't had a chance to read up on you but I noticed there is more communication w your w. how did it get to that point? Are you guys living together?

She moved out June 2012.

My W and I have been on and off a few times since she left. For the first month we hardly had any contact at all.
Even when we aren't getting on there's very few days we don't speak. The less I initiate the more she does. Could be coincidence, there could be something to it.

I noticed your still living with your W.
Being completely apart gives them space, gives them time to miss you, time to wonder where you are and what your doing. Time to think.

Gives you space, gives you a reason to set up your own future with or with out her. Makes you totally independent.
You don't know what they are doing but at least you don't have to watch her walk out the door.
Silent treatment doesn't work if your not there.
You only have to act 'as if' when you meet because of the kids. You can put all your confidence, personality into that small patch of time and look good and be your best.