WAW having affair, still living in separate rooms

[newman7977]

If she's in an A just like my W she won't see us. Although my W once told me that she knows ive changed but its a little too late. I can relate to your feelings and you're right it isn't fair. My W filled up the forms but couldn't get herself to file I couldn't either but if she does I am ready to fight for what's fair for the kids. At this point she should file not me since I'm not the one that checked out of M.

I know everyone is different but when I got my ducks in a row, I felt good...I didn't feel trap if she ever files.

Try to put the feelings on the side and concentrate on the legal process of all these, it will impact your future with your s6. You have to think whats the BEST interest for you and s6. D is only a piece of paper and you and your W can still get back together even after D. I think to finalized a dissolution of M takes about 6mos to a yr...a lot can happen then. Yep so you have time you can hope but take off the expectations.

I've seen it happen here...visit the forum here, I forgot the name I think it's called "divorced but not done".