Kenva, most states are "no fault", unless you are not in one the A card don't matter. Unless, I would think, if OM has some bad criminal record or he's a child molester or if your W is not mentally sound to care for your child...I don't know just thinking these could be exceptions to get more custody in your favor. Again, I have no experience in this just thinking out loud.

me40; W43
M18; T~20
D18; S13 & S3
bomb 5/9/11
EA busted 4/30/12; 9/4/12; 4/29/13; 6/10/13 same OM

Separated 4/1/14

"Even a flicker of light will shine through darkness-12/25/2012"....better days ahead.