Sorry you are having a bad day, sweetie. We all have them. You will get through it.
Please dont text your wife, J. Leave her to figure herself out. You are giving her time and space as she asked. What a gift you are giving, that you heard her. .
Originally Posted By: jp787
Posting to others feels good, yet I have to battle with the thoughts in my mind. I think well so and so would have said it better or I didn't say that right or who am I to give adivice I am no where close to where I should be DBing for as long as I have been in my sitch.
Look at me, J. I did it! You helped me. Thank you.
As far as posting to others - we, all of us, just do the best we can. The most important thing is that you make them feel that they are heard, that someone cares enough to post, that they know they are not alone. And you do all of that.
And yes, look into food photography today. Look at your goals and pick one.
And yes, meetups is a good way to find people with similar interests.
J, you are right where you are supposed to be on this journey.
You cannot rush it, you dont want to miss any steps.