OK uRworty, let's try this. Do you see the red tab/button that says quote down below?
Click on that as soon as you finish reading this.
When you click on that button a new window/box will open up with everything in it that you are reading here.
find this: [/quote]
Then right after that type in something that you want to say.
Then click the submit button on the bottom.
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy
And I see you posting on other threads. You are giving some good insights.
Feels good, doesnt it?
Having a hard day, cold rainy and gloomy out. I am tired and lack motivation, haven't talked to W for almost two days and for me that is a long time. It isn't making it easier, but much more difficult. Need to keep my focus and find something to do for me.
Posting to others feels good, yet I have to battle with the thoughts in my mind. I think well so and so would have said it better or I didn't say that right or who am I to give adivice I am no where close to where I should be DBing for as long as I have been in my sitch.
Thanks for checking in.
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy
Hey, don't think of it like that. None of us are experts here, otherwise it wouldn't be free!
At AA meetings, the new people have to speak. I think it's because they want people to be more comfortable with sharing. I've been to Al-Anon meetings (not an alcoholic myself, but they were everywhere in my family - and I'm comfortable saying that because this board is anonymous as well), and I know that we learn to heal ourselves by helping others. So do jump in, even if -- heck, especially if -- you want to offer encouragement or sympathy. It taches you humility and compassion, and lord knows we could all use more of that. Some of the best insights I've had have come from posting on other threads. I mean, writing helps you organize your thoughts, but after a while even *I* get sick of writing about myself
So please continue to share. People are really reaching out for a shoulder to lean on and god gave us two of 'em so we'd always have one to lend.
M41 W42 M 12 T 15 S10, D9, twin Ds 3 1/2 BD 1/2/2013 Living as roommates Working on D agreement w. mediator 5/13
Totally agree with Papa! JP some of the best advice you have giving me is just encouragement when I needed it the most. That means a lot. Even when ou remind of things I've said in the past. Try to find something his weekend to keep you busy. Do some research on the food photography!!
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it
JP, I haven't caught up with your sitch but you feel down on your last post. Don't feel that way, so just you know what you posts in my thread really made me think. You are doing good bud!
Newman
me40; W43 M18; T~20 D18; S13 & S3 bomb 5/9/11 EA busted 4/30/12; 9/4/12; 4/29/13; 6/10/13 same OM
Separated 4/1/14
"Even a flicker of light will shine through darkness-12/25/2012"....better days ahead.
"Food photography"? Maybe in meetup.com you can find a group with same interest. I've been looking there because I want to learn how to cook, a 180 for me I mean don't get me wrong I can bust out a grill and make excellent steaks but that's about it
me40; W43 M18; T~20 D18; S13 & S3 bomb 5/9/11 EA busted 4/30/12; 9/4/12; 4/29/13; 6/10/13 same OM
Separated 4/1/14
"Even a flicker of light will shine through darkness-12/25/2012"....better days ahead.
Just curious, what kind of food photography are you interested in? I am a chef and would be happy to recommend some amazing cookbooks with stunning photography.
Me-36 W-31 M-7 S-5 BD Dec/12- things were wrong for awhile, head was in the sand
Seeking means: to have a goal Finding means: to be free, to be receptive, to have no goal
