Ellie--Thanks. I DO realize that neither of us was wrong. In fact, I got that a long time ago.
But in his perception, it IS wrong.
I guess I'm still trying to figure out how to move from Mars to Venus (because that seems to be true for me too) and how to do that so that he sees me as human with feelings and vulnerabilities.
I'm going back to the original post by Trish--about walking that line of showing him that I care without crossing whatever boundaries he's made (and keeps moving on me).
Right now, I'm feeling sick, so it's time to go have a wee nap.
Since I don't stay down for very long, I'll get back to you on the nude calendar thing...
Betsey
"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."
