I'm feeling a little guilty. W is on her weekend trip and texted me a few mins ago to ask about things here, and talk about what she's been doing. All positive fun chat. The guilt comes in with her asking if the boys had asked about her. I was honest and told her they asked yesterday after school when she would be home. That's it. Not at bedtime, not this morning, etc. I know she wants them to miss her, but her being away is normal to them.
I feel like I should've made something up. Have to remind myself that actions have consequences. Maybe it will help her? I hope so.
M - 42 W- 37 S's - 9,6 M-12 T-14 FIL- diagnosed with fatal disease spring 2011 ILYBNILWY - march '12 FIL - died jan '13 W Moved out week later