Don't volunteer the info, only if she ask and then just say yes nothing more, calm not upset, not rude-- make her think what you're thinking. Poker face on Kenva.

I see you have s6 focus on you and him now, think about whats best for you and him....have you thought about custody? 50/50 is fair right?

In my sitch, if I ever get in this point my agreement would've been 2-2-3, it's basically alternating weekends. I will also let the kids stay in the house while W and I take turns so that it's mimimal to disrupt their lives.

me40; W43
M18; T~20
D18; S13 & S3
bomb 5/9/11
EA busted 4/30/12; 9/4/12; 4/29/13; 6/10/13 same OM

Separated 4/1/14

"Even a flicker of light will shine through darkness-12/25/2012"....better days ahead.