Can you file for legal separation? It's not as drastic as divorce, but still offers you some protection.
And I agree. While I was waiting it out and letting H make all the decisions in order not to rock the boat I made myself a wreck. I took action to protect myself and my kids. H is mad mad mad but I am protected. And H is only looking out for his own best interest. You need to do the same.
(((Hugs))) WH
AT BD: WH 41, J 43; Bomb 2/5/2012 Two kids, one dog D Final 6/18/14 J marries OW 1/24/15 "No matter where you go, there you are"