Snodderly, you are right that it is time to get something done. I am feeling better after getting out my tears and frustrations.
I am not changing my mind about seeking legal advice, but I am pretty sure that I am not going to file for the divorce. My stance from day one to H was that if he wanted it, he could get it. And quite frankly, he has all the means to be able to do so. I reflected on a lot and think this was to get a reaction out of me. Which I have not given, and I am going to do everything in my power to not give him one.
At this time, I am thinking I will go do the support and custody thing. But my attorney may have different advice. IDK. But I want to go in with an open mind and true to what I believe.
As we all have said...The MLC'ers are going to do what they want, and if he needs to proceed further, then I should let him. These may just be idle threats.
He started this, he can finish it.
BombOctober 2012- OW 11/28/12 -H still denies Separated 11/29/12 Own place 12/12/12 Confessed OW/EA/PA 2/2/13 Oct 2013 - I knew I was done Jan 2014 - Anticipating the rest of my life
