Wow GG - good for you. It is amazing how something like that changes your entire perspective.
2 years after ex left - I went on a spiritual journey with a group led by my counselor to the Amazon jungle. It really cleared my head and I focused on what I really wanted. Josh came into my life a few months late. I felt I manifested him. There were other things happening to me at that time too that had special meaning and gave me hope for a brighter Tommorrow.
Wishing you the best & can't wait to hear about it.