Hi sweetie. I'm wondering how you know all of this.
Doesnt really matter, but, it really is not in your best interest to find these things out.
I want to tell you something. I used to imagine all these things about h and ow. And I came to find out, most of the time, it wasnt how I imagined.
But the doesnt matter either.
Theirs is a relationship that isnt built on love and honesty. It is built on lies and deception. She is with a married man. He is broken.
And because he is, he is using her as a bandaid.
The very best thing you can do is to let that house of cards play out.
Worrying about it, obsessing about it, isnt going to change the outcome. It isnt going to fix your h, it isnt going to get you to where you need to be.
All of that doesnt serve you well.
What does is you putting the focus on you and your children and your new baby. What does is you becoming the best you.
So that if your h looks towards you in the future, he will see someone of strength and courage.
I dont really care about him right now, though, In.
I care about you. You really need to let him blow in the wind right now.
Leave him to figure himself out. Getting yourself worked up about it is not good for you.
