NLW,
You're so fortunate that XH is being weird and this new sitch allows you to focus on other things besides him.

I hope he continues to be weird and you continue to move ahead.

M 42 H 39
T10 (-2yrs separation)
S8 D5
DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA)
Reconciled 6/2013
Separation in works 1/2017