Having been divorced in NY, I can say that if she filed the papers then you or your attorney would have been served.
Well I can say I have not been served nor do I have an attorney
Originally Posted By: MrCAS
Does it really matter if you tracked her down or someone snitched on her? Look at how it looks in her eyes. Perception isn't always correct but that is her reality. It is how it looks in her mind.
No it does not matter but honestly I would like to know if any files have been files on me. This could have been put out there when the were fighting....
Originally Posted By: MrCAS
You seem to have this need to be "right". It is a trait that I have as well. It is hard to resist that sweet satisfaction of being right. That ooey gooey goodness... Yeah.
Im not realy the person that has to be right all the time. It is just at this point I just have this desire to know what she is doing is she gay now or not . I just need or would like her to talk to me. most other thaat i talk to that have the sme thing happening they still talk on phone of in person and i do not get why she feels she cant talk to me.
I have learned a valuable lesson. I don't always have to be right. Sometimes it is okay to be wrong or even just not state that you are. [/quote]
