Sorry to hear. Go on protect mode now. Definitely mention to your L on Monday. Yes don't say much to W over the weekend don't tell her your plans. If I were you I'd get my ducks in a row--meaning get your finances, custody, assets planned out. That's what I would do. Stay poised don't show her you're defeated by this. Keep us posted.
Newman
me40; W43 M18; T~20 D18; S13 & S3 bomb 5/9/11 EA busted 4/30/12; 9/4/12; 4/29/13; 6/10/13 same OM
Separated 4/1/14
"Even a flicker of light will shine through darkness-12/25/2012"....better days ahead.