Thanks, everyone, for encouraging me to fight for what I'm entitled to. I let my attorney know that unless there's a pretty good indication that we will have a settlement agreement soon then it's time to move on and start filing motions for support, attorneys fees, etc. The more this drags on the less my H cares about me and the boys. I've been fearful of taking such adversarial action, but it's necessary. I will need to find a way to cope with the fear and the ugliness of litigation. I could really use some advice.