You are right, we had no choice with the bomb drop, and we do have control with everything after. Problem is, I think it takes a very long time to realize this.
Instead, we try to control the wrong things, like our spouse, what they do, say, and feel. We haven't learned yet that there is no controlling others.
Only ourselves. We can always control what we do and how we act.
Once I figured out that I could leave anytime or end things when/if I needed to, it helped me to see how much control I really did have.
You are right, everything we do, how we live each day, it all matters.
You have one heck of a roadmap my friend
Bomb January 2012 - doesn't feel the same about me
~ "There is nothing love cannot face; there is no limit to its faith, hope, and endurance."
