W brought son back. I just told her thank you and good luck the rest of the weekend
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it
I'm going minimal contact from this point on. I am also going to start journaling so I can see where things seem to make a difference. I'm going to Dallas next weekend for 4 days and then the weekend after she is having a breast augmentation surgery. So it will make it a little easier for minimal contact. I do like to try and see son everyday so I I'm going to pick him up from her as bring him places instead of playin there. Any other ideas?
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it
"Yipp - freakin - ee!, C. Good on you. Really. Much better convo with wife, yes?"
Yes. Convo with W was much better. And I got to say a couple line in there that I would have to bring up Sunday when she returned. Now there truly is nothing to discuss and I won't need to bring it up. Headed to company crawfish boil with son. He's gonna love it. Fun jumps, games and lots of other kids to play with
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it
hmmm... sounds like fun, wish I could go!! Have fun cbt!!
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
MrCas I see you are in South Carolina. I love a good low country boil. Most people who say they don't like boiled crawfish haven't had it done right. Lol I'm trying to keep my thoughts strictly about me. Very hard of course:) W just FaceTime son goodnight and her tone and attitude were completely different. She was being the W I would want to be with basically. But then I can't help but think as soon as she gets off phone she is going to be hanging out with OM. Just need to keep thoughts on me!!!
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it
Well done cbtdad on the new validation work, what a difference compared to the texts that were sent and mentioned here.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
