I was just asking everyone a question.. I havent tried to fix her, only to get guidance from the stand point of whether I should support her getting a job.

Mrbond was gracious and provided msny good suggestions.

As far as 180s they are still going on. I havent stopped them at all. Not throwing myself into something new smile I can hold a parellel thought while still doing what I need to do to better myself.

Backyard project resumes this weekend! Should be fun. If it would only stop raining for long enough!


Me, H-34 now 38
W-32 now 35
T-13 now 18 years
M-6 now 9
Daughter 3 years now 7
Bomb 11/27/12 - OM
1 year in house separation
Reconciliation 12/2013. Healed now 2017