Man, what an explanation, AS! You expressed that in words that I fully grasp and understand. Thank you for your effort in helping me, "get it".
Today, I sent a text to W. Our D has needed a dentists checkup almost since we sep. We have been putting it off and putting it off. I finally thought that is was very neglegent of us to put off our daugthers dental health because we were having issues. So, I made an apointment and in the text informed W that D has to be there at 10:30 on monday. I also made a point of saying that the cost is covered so she doesn't have to worry about that. Lack of funds was her reasoning why she couldnt agree to making the appointment :-/
She replied asking if she was supposed to take her. I said, "I can take her for sure, if you are busy".......no other replies from W
Moments ago, I pulled up in front of my house. W was parked across the street to pick daighter up from the school bus. She was with a friend. Once D got off the bus, W pulled away leaving friend and D to walk home. I am sure they planned on this previously, but W literally pealed away once I came home.....I just waived and smiled....Detach, right?
