T^2, I think putting the rings on is positive, but who knows what's going on in Ws head. Just be quiet and patient.

2.4 mentioned his Ws dissatisfaction with her job. It's possible she is projecting her unhappiness on her work the same as she does with blaming you. My w does the same and I'm convinced its her way of wanting to run. Wouldn't matter what the job was.

Stay calm T^2!

M - 42
W- 37
S's - 9,6
M-12
T-14
FIL- diagnosed with fatal disease spring 2011
ILYBNILWY - march '12
FIL - died jan '13
W Moved out week later