My only thought is, like any sound business choice, that there are clear boundaries around what monies are used for the business and how the profits for that business are to be spent in positive ways, including wages.
This is his intent. However, like many business, in the early days wages are not feasible. The plan is that once there is enough "capital" to bankroll the "business", wages will be forthcoming.
Now, is it entirely possible H is blowing smoke about ever giving monies toward the house? Yes indeedy.
But there isn't much to be done about this so I don't sweat it- time will tell.
IDK if I would classify H as addiction prone necessarily (I can hear someone shouting "denial") but rather more of serial obsessions. When H is "done" with something, he's "done". I have never seen anything hold him for more than a few years.
I appreciate your input KD. I think, understandably, there is a tendency to hear the word "gambling" and presume "addiction". That doesn't happen to be the case, imho, in this instance.
Me 46 H 56 M 22 yrs S22, D20, Twin Ss18
You teach people how to treat you by what you allow. What you stop. And what you reinforce. ~~~~~~~ A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.
