Also try googing detachment, and see what you can come up with for advice. Dartmouth has a good article on detachemnt. I can tell you that it is the most important thing that you can DO.
Have you read DR or DB?
Originally Posted By: stungBT
I am struggling with GAL as well. I don't know what to do. The Coach says it should be something interesting - something that shows him look shes interesting. I am mostly a homebody.
What do you like to do? What new activities can you find? Maybe going to the library or volunteering at a Hospital? What are you passionate about?
Originally Posted By: stungBT
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THE GIFT OF TIME.
I don't understand. Would you elaborate? How could I use it wisely?
By not sitting around moping about his affair. Acting "AS IF" everything is fine and that you are going to be OK. Fake it until you make it. Read on this forum and understand what you are dealing with. Do you have friends? Maybe starting a diet or taking a class. Play a sport or an instrument.
Create some GOALS. And start working towards them.
