Confused about what I want

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Hey B ,

Me a newbie around here so just offering something from my own experience..No i am not in a situation similar to yours but whenever you mention the 15 years of marriage it just tears me up too..really do wonder how can anyone just find feelings, someone to poof away those memories..

I have tried to play the pursuer chaser game with all honesty, given him space but when things have just got too overwhelming and i thought what do I really have to lose ....did something probably non db..

So my 2 cents here is probably for the first couple of times do not invite him but then later casually throw in the question.. Am sure the vets will have the right words if at all they do advise you to go ahead ..

You are doing great b.. I do read your posts regarding your kids .. You are really doing your best..take care..(((b)))

Portia what a beautiful post.. One for you too (((P)))