What you sent was good, what you suggested earlier was very clingy and pursuing, and would probably have pushed her away. Not sending a text today would NOT have ended your chances; be cautious when you feel anxiety driving you toward unrecommended actions (unsolicited text, pursuit, relationship talks).
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.