So having a hard time finding time to read DR, only have hard copy, no kindle version so cant really hide it. Don't want W to know I'm reading it, and dont want to ask her to read it right now. Work is really busy and kids events and work at home is non stop. I found myself putting the book in my drawer at work and catching a few pages here and there. Also lunches seem to be the best, but I'm generally not a speed reader as I reread passages to make sure I understand, especially something as important as this. It's hard living under the same roof right now and trying to hash this out, dont get me wrong I wouldnt have it any other way and "I'm counting my blessing for the moment" ... W eloquently said this last week to me. I know she didn't have any hurtful intent as thats not her nature ... but it stuck with me and made me wonder.


M: 43
W: 43
Married: 17 Together: 20
BD: 4/8/13 no legal or physical S as of yet
3 kids: S:14 D:13 D:9
W admitted EA: 5/5/13
Mediation started: 6/3/13
W says EA is done: 6/30/13 - still interested in D