i understand what you guys are saying.

When i was back living with him i tried so hard to always be loving and positive but he would push me away and start a fight. How do you let that roll off your back? I honestly dont know how some people can do it.

Its like the nicer and loving I was the more it pissed him off.

H:25 M:25
T: 9 1/2 Yrs
M: 5 Yrs

trouble in paradise: 1/18
Big D: 2/10
EA confirmed 3/11
H Leaves me: 3/30
Files: 4/8
Served: 4/15
OW Confirmed: 8/6
Divorce Final: ???