Originally Posted By: danielf
Why don't I just divorce her?


You can, but I'm not sure it'll bring the closure you're hoping for. I really think GAL does more for helping us heal and move on than D does.

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I've seen it said on here that if you're not sure if you are done, then you have another day in you. I'm not sure if I want to spend my last days growing colder and sadder and pining away. I can survive another day. But I don't want to die for something that's already dead.


It's also said a lot on here that you'll know when you're well and truly done. For some people it's after a few days. For others it's weeks, months or even years. That's your call.


Me: 60 w/ S18, D24, D27

M: 21 years; BD: 06-14-12; S: 09-10-12; D final: 03-17-14; XW:57